Monday, November 19, 2018

Day 19 No voice. No more. November

Biblical Marriage: Leading and Serving Together
Jon and Jada Swanson



In our marriage, one way we practice mutual submission as husband and wife is by deferring to one another's strengths. There are subjects and areas in life where on of us is exceedingly smarter and/or has more experience than the other. As such, we yield to each other's admonition or advice. We know each other's, we defer decision-making to the other based upon individual strengths, and we trust one another to make the best decision for our family. We lead from our strengths in order to be an incredible team. 
http://fmcusa.org/lightandlifemag/biblical-marriage-leading-and-serving-together/
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Sunday, November 18, 2018

Day 18 No voice. No more. November

Macrina's Prayer

It is you, O Lord, who have freed us from the fear of death. You have made our life here the beginning of our true life. You grant our bodies to rest in sleep for a season and you rouse our bodies again at the last trumpet.

You have given in trust to the earth our earthly bodies, which you have formed with your own hands, and you have restored what you have given, by transforming our mortality and ugliness by our immortality and your grace.

You have delivered us from the curse of the law and from sin, by being made both on our behalf. You have broken the dragon's head - that dragon who seized man by the throat and dragged him through the yawning gulf of disobedience. You have opened for us the way of the resurrection, after breaking the gates of hell, and have destroyed him that had the power of death.

You have given as a token to those who fear you the image of the holy cross, to destroy the adversary and to bring stability to our lives.

Eternal God, for whom I was snatched from my mother's womb, whom my soul loved with all its strength, to whom I consecrated my flesh from youth now, entrust to me an angel of light, who will lead me by the hand to the place of refreshment, where the "water of repose" is, in the bosom of the holy patriarchs.

May you, who cut through the fire of the flaming sword and assigned to paradise him who was crucified with you and entrusted to your pity, remember me too in your kingdom, because I too have been crucified with you; from fear of you I have nailed down my flesh and have been in fear of your judgments.

May the terrible gulf not separate me from those whom you have chosen, nor may the malignant Enemy set himself across my path, nor may my sin be discovered in your sight, if having error through the weakness of our human nature, I have committed any sin in word and in deed.

May you who have power on earth to forgive sins, forgive me, that I may draw breath and that I may be found in your presence, "having shed by body and without spot or wrinkle" in the form of my soul, and that my soul may be innocent and spotless and may be received into your hands like incense in your presence.

A the time of her death, there was a procession from the monastery to the church and this included many local people, both lay and clergy. A bishop presided at her funeral and she is buried in the Church of the Holy Martyrs in modern day Turkey. She is considered one of the Cappadocian "Fathers" according to many church history scholars. Her brothers, St. Basil and St. Gregory of Nyssa were credited with much of her work.Gregory served as pope and was with her at the time of her death. He saw her stretch out her hands to Jesus and gently and barely audibly pray. For more of her story, see the work of Kevin Corrigan and Laura Swan's The Forgotten Desert Mothers.

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Saturday, November 17, 2018

Day 17 No voice. No more. November

Towards a Deeper Theology of Women

In the Forward of How I Changed My Mind about Women In Leadership, Dallas Willard states:

It is not the rights of women to occupy 'official' ministerial roles, not their equality to men in those roles, that set the terms of service to God and their neighbors. It is their obligations to do so - obligations that derive from their human abilities empowered by divine gifting. It is the good they can do and the duty to serve that comes from that, which impels them to serve in all ways possible.

Women and men are indeed very different, and those differences are essential to how God empowers each to induce the Kingdom of God into specific life settings and ministry. What we lose by excluding the distinctively feminine from 'official' ministries of teaching and preaching is of incalculable value. That loss is one of a few fundamental factors that account for the astonishing weakness of the church in contemporary context.


https://juniaproject.com/towards-a-deeper-theology-of-women/
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Friday, November 16, 2018

Day 16 No voice. No more. November

David Kendall, Bishop of the Free Methodist Church
gives an incredible synopsis of the whole Biblical story pointing to the fact that God created both male and female to work and lead together. Humanity made a fatal human choice not to do life God's way and because of that both male and female have suffered and caused others to suffer as well. However, God worked in the story, most fully in bringing the Kingdom of God into human history in the person of Jesus. Jesus is the world's Messiah and full redemption. This means that women and men are saved and restored to their original mission: to work and lead together. This is the thrust of the whole story. This means that the two passages that, at first glance appear to say that women should not lead, are clearly not intended to keep women from working and leading. The final word is that God, in Christ, has given men and women abundant life and intends us to flourish and work for that same result for the world.
See my facebook post for the video.
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Thursday, November 15, 2018

Day 15 No voice. No more. November





We Need Women in Pastoral Leadership



Great video from a Free Methodist Supt. in California.

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Wednesday, November 14, 2018

Day 14 No voice. No more. November


a coffee mug cheers to all of us pastors and our husbands....thanks Sarah Coleson Derck, I stole the picture!
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Tuesday, November 13, 2018

Day 13 No voice. No more. November

Check out this great post about what it means to be an egalitarian. It is helpful, in part, because it clears up what an egalitarian is not.

Here are the 5 things:

  • Equality is not sameness
  • There are differences on average
  • Gender difference does not require gender roles
  • Gender roles aren't the Bible's (or God's) way
  • Humanity before gender

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5 Things Egalitarians Believe | Scot McKnight

Monday, November 12, 2018

Day 12 No voice. No more. November

Women gathering at National Prayer Summit
Great podcast by Bill and Kristi at Soul Shepherding.

https://www.soulshepherding.org/podcast/141-pa-women-in-ministry/

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Sunday, November 11, 2018

Day 11 No voice. No more. November

(Prayer offered by David Kendall, Bishop of the Free Methodist Church: "For my sisters and colleagues in ministry and leadership in North Michigan and beyond")

Loving Lord God, YOU

Who reveal yourself as the God of Sarah, Rebekah and Rachel,
The God of Tamar, Miriam, Ruth and Bathsheba, and

The God and Father of the Mary's three - the Mother of our Lord Jesus, the sister of Martha whose place at the feet of Jesus was noted and protected, and the Mary of Magdala cursed seven-fold by demonic possession and yet set free...

We worship you and bow down before you, and place at your disposal all that we are and will be, all that we have and will have, all that we know and don't know - we place it all before you, completely surrendered, utterly available. We - in your presence - at your service.

How amazing and how humbling to be with you, in the Presence of that Supreme Lord of all who broods over  a people as the mother eagle, who covers with mighty pinions her children in moments of storm and threat, lifts and bears them up in times of weakness, and ultimately shields them from all deadly terrors!

How comforting and challenging to receive your care - healing from wounds suffered, forgiveness for wounds embraced, recovery, renewal and resurrection from mortal threat.

How welcome and fitting to receive your empowering for ongoing following after Jesus, walking in his footsteps, loving in his shadow, joining together in his yoke, striving and contending one with another for the sake of his gospel, working with him, serving with him, sacrificing, dying, and rising with him.

Lord God of all, let it be. Let it be!

Loving Lord God, from among my sisters and colleagues in ministry and leadership.

May your mighty Spirit, in our day, call forth, anoint, and empower a multitude of Miriams who compose songs and lead your people in a depth and quality of worship from which will flow your might acts that set people free;

a contingent of Deborahs whose strategic vision, mastery of weapons of your 'warfare,' and courageous leadership achieves awesome victory in the battles your people must face;

a cadre of Esthers, prepared, and positioned and poised to rise up for times such as these for every hour critical to our unfolding plan of provision and redemption for peoples, communities, and nations;

a community of Marys called to inconceivable tasks and unbelievable roles, declaring: 'Here we are, women of willing and daring obedience, let it be to us and through us according to your word'; and

a company of countless other sisters who, though un-heralded, step up as blessed witness to your resurrection and thus bring new life in Jesus to this till death-laden world!

And, Loving Lord God, may their brother - colleagues cheer them on, support their way, and join their ranks, in your Holy Name, Amen!

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Saturday, November 10, 2018

Day 10 No voice. No more. November







Check out this short video. There are a ton of other more thorough explanations by N. T. Wright, but this is concise.

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Friday, November 09, 2018

Day 9 No voice. No more. November

Phoebe Palmer is a figure in recent church history that every person who says that they follow Jesus MUST know about. She inspires me. She changed her world and changed the church.

https://www.seedbed.com/she-preaches-gospel-phoebe-palmer/
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Thursday, November 08, 2018

Day 8 No voice. No more. November

Dr. Joseph Coleson has a great video here. He is a great human being along with being a support male advocate for women in church leadership.

https://vimeo.com/221322723?fbclid=IwAR0P7e_WqWzyohHbSXBT-Y4AZgWaAm8m-lR89sy0ZKX0MJM8EgYHeX2Tn58

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Wednesday, November 07, 2018

Day 7 No voice. No more. November

In this post, Larry Walkemeyer states:
Also, as I ministered in areas of the world where women were empowered, I saw the amazing impact that gifted women were having for the gospel. I realized how much the gospel was being slowed by the unscriptural subjugation of women.
It is now my desire to champion the right of women everywhere to use all their gifts on an equal basis as men. The injustice of being oppressed by inaccurate interpretations of scripture must be actively addressed.
I am an advocate for the unhindered calling of all women.
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Tuesday, November 06, 2018

Day 6 No voice. No more. November





What Happened at the Seneca Falls Convention? | History



I voted today! Glad to use my voice.

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Monday, November 05, 2018

Day 5 No voice. No more. November





Empowering Women Leaders: An Interview with John Ortberg



Great interview. What is there not to like about John Ortberg?!



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Sunday, November 04, 2018

Saturday, November 03, 2018

Day 3 No voice. No more. November

When we think of evangelism, we needn’t think of an unnatural, contrived, or scary process. Nor should we think that evangelism necessarily entails crossing land and sea (although for some it will). When we think of evangelism, we can think of it as an overflow of our life in Christ wherever we are. We see this in the lives of the Samaritan woman and Mary Magdalene. They couldn’t help but share the Good News with the people around them.
Evangelism happens when we rub elbows with people on the highways and byways of our lives—the laundromat, dog park, coffee shop, church, community events, social events, work, or school. It happens among our neighbors and family members. When we connect with others in our daily routines, they have an opportunity to encounter Jesus. If they ask us about ourselves and about what is important to us, the Good News will naturally spill out of us—if we are being honest about who we are and what has happened to us. In our everyday circumstances, we can invite people into sharing the joy and wonder of knowing Jesus. It needn’t be awkward or forced. Some will respond to the Good News we share and embrace it with joy. Others won’t. But those who do will hail us as beautiful, for we have been the joyful messengers of God’s salvation, of God’s abundant resurrection life to them.
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https://www.christianitytoday.com/women/2018/october/first-female-evangelists-mary-magdalene.html

Friday, November 02, 2018

Day 2 No voice. No more. November

B.T. Roberts: "I hold that in the local government of the church, women should be allowed the same vote as men in the admission of members, and in the election of officers, as is the custom in Protestant churches general: that if God has given to some women such gifts and grace, and placed her providentially in such circumstances that the members generally and spontaneously feel that she is the most suitable person to fill some office in the church, then there should be no ironclad rule that would exclude her on account of her sex."
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http://fmcusa.org/lightandlifemag/ought-women-to-govern-in-the-church/

Thursday, November 01, 2018

No voice. No more. November

Over the past few years it has become a trend that men celebrate "no shave November" which gives them purpose in growing a beard or neglecting to shave.
Additionally, I am inspired by the idea that we really can take on something new and make it a habit if we do it for thirty days. In November of last year, Lived Experience was filmed (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UdpnOTpOjs4&t=1s).

The process of making the film and it being released was exciting and exhausting. Honestly, I was tired and wanted to crawl into a cave by the time it was completed. It is hard to be an advocate for those who have been hurt and who feel like they continue to have no voice.

I went through a period of silence myself because I was done with advocating. This 30 day social media campaign is my way of re-engaging. I am asking others who have influence to join me in advocating for the voices of women to be heard.

Each day in November, I will post a video, podcast, prayer, or article which informs and challenges others to see how valuable it is that there are no more voices left unheard.

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Tuesday, January 09, 2018

Stranger but No Stranger, part 2




























One of the most incredible things about Jesus is that he was such a good listener. He cared about the person who was speaking with him, the person requesting something from him or touching him as though he or she was the only person in the world.

This recently struck me while reading through the Gospel of John, I notice how much time and intentional caring conversation Jesus has with people. In John 4, Jesus cared deeply for the woman who was a Samaritan. No "respectable" Jewish man would have had such a conversation (4:9). He talked with her as though what she was saying was significant. He entertained her novice theologizing (4:8-25). He honored her by listening to her. Jesus speaks the truth to her as though she was a person with dignity. She needed the truth and she deserved the truth. When he reveals to her that he is the Messiah, she is shocked (4:26). I can imagine that she thought, "why would he be talking to me?" or "why would he sit there and allow me ask such silly questions?" or "how could he know my past, see past my past, and still want to be in conversation with me?"

Jesus had such compassion. He was not aloof to human suffering. He saw that there were circumstances that cause alienation. It seems as though he understood that there is suffering that is caused by human stupidity and rejection of the things of God. And, on the other hand, there is suffering that is not a direct result of any one particular sin. Maybe, he would have summed it up the way one of my preacher friends here says, "it is a beautiful and broken world." Jesus would add, "repent, for the kingdom of God is right here, right now and is available for you to enter."

Jesus was not a stranger to suffering, to feelings of loneliness, or anger. To imagine him as a man with low affect is inaccurate. Human emotions were part of his life. Though emotions were a part of his life, Jesus was not held hostage by emotions. He was a stranger to the game-playing, maneuvering, and spinning the truth. He was a stranger to things like guilt trips and manipulation and bribery. As he fully trusted in the Father, he didn't have to resort to these things. He could experience human emotions without allowing them to hold him hostage. He was free from being mastered by them because he was intimately connected with the One who sent him. He was free to care and show compassion without having to be validated or even have the love reciprocated.

With reverence, joy, humility, and delight I recognize that this is the Master that I follow. I gladly bow and worship this One.With the words of O Holy Night! verse two, I sing: "The King of kings lay thus in lowly manger, in all our trials born to be our Friend; He knows our need, To our weakness is not stranger. Behold your King, before him lowly bend!"