Discussion Questions to Accompany Lived Experience
(see Study Commission on Doctrine's Conversations page, link at the bottom of this post)
(image of flat BT and Rosemary removed because I think that it was the photo that broke the Instagram...just a theory)
Have you ever been told, "I just don't get you" or "you are not really the person we are looking for" by a co-workers, potential employers, or bosses? How did it make you feel?
Discuss how you felt when a person in authority over you made a joke or used humor to insult or shame you.
Discuss which Bible translation you prefer. What criteria do you use in making this decision? Have you ever considered how others respond to things such as exclusive language used in Bible translations or exclusively masculine language used for church leaders? Now that you have considered this,k are you willing to change your behavior?
For male pastors
Share about a time when you asked a female peer in ministry to share her story. Did you listen without interrupting and becoming defensive?
Consider praying for fresh ears to humbly hear things such as exclusive language and human that insults for what it is (hurtful) and share with others your awareness and steps you are taking in order to be more loving toward your female colleagues.
Are there women for whom you need to become an advocate? Are there broken relationships that need healing?
For those in authority over women
Consider who the women are in your charge that need support, mentoring, and resourcing. Are there gifted women you could ask to lead in your church or conference? Who are the women you need to invite to speak at your next conference training day, retreat, camp, workshop, or class?
What are ways you can use your influence and access to champion gifted women into positions that they are qualified for and called to?
For women in ministry
Tell those around you your story. If it feels impossible or like there is no one who will listen, pray for boldness and strength and for direction about how and with whom to share.
Who are the people who can support you and mentor you? What are steps you can take to cultivate a strong and broad network of support?
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http://new.fmcusa.org/conversations/lived-experience-of-female-free-methodist-pastors/
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